Not just a pretty face

Like most parents of 5-year-old children we get a lot of arts and crafts projects sent home in Liam’s backpack. Most of them obviously the result of “hand over hand” writing and crafting. That’s ok with us. We came to grips early in Liam’s life that he wasn’t going to be making us any crafts or writing us any letters.

We picked Liam up from school about fifteen minutes early on friday so that we could take him to a doctor’s appointment. Liam’s nurse barely had him out of the doorway when he started he shouting at me. “He did such great work today! He worked so hard! Wait until I show you what he did in class today!” Liam’s nurse is not the most excitable gentleman you’re likely to meet and so the enthusiasm was evidence in and of itself of the importance of what we are about to see.

I can’t tell you how much class work we end up finding ourselves when going through Liam’s backpack long after his nurse has gone home from the day. Not only did he want to show us this work, he started showing Karin and I this page in the van, before we even had the tie-downs on his wheelchair secure.

“It started with this worksheet.” He told Karin and I while we secured Liam’s wheelchair. “He was doing some hand over hand on numbers until he did this number one all by himself!”

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“That’s when [Liam’s teacher] got really excited and ran to get some more paper. She wanted to see how far she could push him and the only support she gave was to keep her hand at his elbow so his arm would stay on the table and not fall off.” He was speaking faster than usual now “The marker stayed in his hand on his own and he moved his wrist and hand on his own.”  That’s when he pulled it out of the bag to show us.

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From left to right. 1…2…3…4…5.

You might not see it. and you know what, I’ll admit that the 4 might be a bit of a stretch but it looks pretty damn good to me.

It’s things like this that Karin and I wish we could show to every doctor and resident who saw fit to tell us everything that Liam wouldn’t do. Everything that he’d never accomplish. Everything that’d be impossible for him to learn.

Because as a close friend who also is a parent of a child with some special needs often tells us — Everything is possible — the impossible just takes longer.

*****

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Liam and his best buddy W, the nurse I mention above. The photos are selfies that W has taken and shared with us. It would be a HIPAA violation for him to share them in any other way. But not if I do.

14 comments

  1. I never would have thought that 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 could bring tears of joy to my eyes, but it did today. Liam and W, keep up the good work.

  2. So happy to hear about little Liam. The Lord is not finished with this little boy. This reminds me to keep praying for little Luam.

  3. Totally cool. Liam would not be able to make this tremendous success without the awesome love and support of his totally engaged and inspiring parents. He is a very fortunate boy..

  4. You know, that little line, that little quote, ” Everything is possible, the impossible just takes a little longer.” Those words have been our constant motto for many, many years. We even framed the quote and placed it at Zoey’s bedside, during the leukemia days. Liam is amazing. Simply amazing.

    * am back. But wordpress confuses me. I can’t figure all the things out that I want to do. Like adding blogrolls and such. I don’t want to throw in the towel yet but, I miss blogger. 😦

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